you become what you believe, so believe in yourself
You shouldn’t look for answers in people who have left you.
There are no revelations there. No guides. No fulfillment’s of any kind.
You’re not going to find a map to paradise in these people.
You’re going to find confusion and a lot more questions, perhaps even more than you can handle.
And I know people change, that is if they want to but why give in?
Why trust who has broken you before?
I mean, people live and sometimes they have the nerve to come back but that doesn’t mean you’ve got to let them back in.
You don’t have to.
You owe it to yourself to be happy.
Besides look at you now, you’re a goddam superstar and in their absence you have found more of yourself and your smile.
You’re stronger and to be honest, you don’t need to spiral around the bulls*** their universe brings.
You don’t need people who have hurt you to convince you of how beautiful you are.
You’re a flower, and you don’t drown the moment the rain starts falling down.
This is something I deal with every week. Am I helping myself or hurting myself. Days I am depressed I am generally not doing what I need to do, to get where I want to be. Days I am happy I do what I need to do, to be where I need to be.
The saying from Nike is priceless,”Just Do It.” Easier said than done, but moving forward is better than staying still. Moving forward means things can become better. Doing nothing means things will stay the same. Either way, those are your choices. The world will change regardless.
- Hunger can cause depression. Are you eating well?
- Lack of exercise can cause depression. Go outside for a walk.
- Water. This is an odd one to me, but if I pound a liter of water I will feel better. No idea why, but it works for me.
- Create a daily to do list
- Create a list of priorities, goals, and dreams and prioritize them. This often inspires me
- Call a friend
- Post some positive things to your blog(we all have one)
WWCONNECT2016 in Seattle
Computer literacy is becoming essential than ever in a recent development of technology. At work, I find myself feeling incapable because I don’t understand Ruby, SQL and data analysis. I’ve been feeling of necessity of learning how our app works so I can talk to our developers and find a solution. One of my colleague have told me “Everyone should learn how to code.” Working at a small office, I know that it’d help a lot if everyone could jump in on a repo and fix issues, and create and discuss new features based on coding knowledge (not just an idea off course from capability of our system).
Then at home, as I sit down winding on a couch, CEO of Girls who code was talking on The Daily Show with Trevor Noah about their mission to teach girls to code and touted about their success stories. I’ve seen more and more of the message of importance of coding skill.
OK, so I need to learn how to code.
So, what do I do? As I was searching on the web and found the Women who code having an event in Seattle. I wasn’t sure if this is the right place for somebody who just started learning to code. I’ve been teaching myself basic free online courses for a couple of months. I really wanted to see if this is something I can do it and enjoy it. I wanted to see women working in the field, their success and their struggle and all. And I found WWCode created this worldwide community and it is growing strong. I thought this will be a great opportunity to learn. So, I signed up WWCONNECT2016 held in Seattle on Mar 19-20.
I’m glad I flew to Seattle (on March, yeah, I was advised it’s not the best season to go there but I found the weather was soothing and I liked it.) As I got there at the venue, there was a sense of support, encouragement and motivation in a room.
Here’s what I learned at WWCONNECT2016 conference.